Use `pidfd` for cancellable `_ForkedProc.wait`

Two coordinated improvements to the `subint_forkserver` backend:

1. Replace `trio.to_thread.run_sync(os.waitpid, ...,
   abandon_on_cancel=False)` in `_ForkedProc.wait()`
   with `trio.lowlevel.wait_readable(pidfd)`. The
   prior version blocked a trio cache thread on a
   sync syscall — outer cancel scopes couldn't
   unwedge it when something downstream got stuck.
   Same pattern `trio.Process.wait()` and
   `proc_waiter` (the mp backend) already use.

2. Drop the `@pytest.mark.xfail(strict=True)` from
   `test_orphaned_subactor_sigint_cleanup_DRAFT` —
   the test now PASSES after 0cd0b633 (fork-child
   FD scrub). Same root cause as the nested-cancel
   hang: inherited IPC/trio FDs were poisoning the
   child's event loop. Closing them lets SIGINT
   propagation work as designed.

Deats,
- `_ForkedProc.__init__` opens a pidfd via
  `os.pidfd_open(pid)` (Linux 5.3+, Python 3.9+)
- `wait()` parks on `trio.lowlevel.wait_readable()`,
  then non-blocking `waitpid(WNOHANG)` to collect
  the exit status (correct since the pidfd signal
  IS the child-exit notification)
- `ChildProcessError` swallow handles the rare race
  where someone else reaps first
- pidfd closed after `wait()` completes (one-shot
  semantics) + `__del__` belt-and-braces for
  unexpected-teardown paths
- test docstring's `@xfail` block replaced with a
  `# NOTE` comment explaining the historical
  context + cross-ref to the conc-anal doc; test
  remains in place as a regression guard

The two changes are interdependent — the
cancellable `wait()` matters for the same nested-
cancel scenarios the FD scrub fixes, since the
original deadlock had trio cache workers wedged in
`os.waitpid` swallowing the outer cancel.

(this patch was generated in some part by [`claude-code`][claude-code-gh])
[claude-code-gh]: https://github.com/anthropics/claude-code

tests/spawn/test_subint_forkserver.py

@@ -446,22 +446,15 @@ def _process_alive(pid: int) -> bool:
         return False
 
 
-@pytest.mark.xfail(
-    strict=True,
-    reason=(
-        'subint_forkserver orphan-child SIGINT hang: trio\'s '
-        'event loop stays wedged in `epoll_wait` despite the '
-        'SIGINT handler being correctly installed and the '
-        'signal being delivered at the kernel level. NOT a '
-        '"handler missing on non-main thread" issue — post-'
-        'fork the worker IS `threading.main_thread()` and '
-        'trio\'s `KIManager` handler is confirmed installed. '
-        'Full analysis + ruled-out hypotheses + fix directions '
-        'in `ai/conc-anal/'
-        'subint_forkserver_orphan_sigint_hang_issue.md`. '
-        'Flip this mark (or drop it) once the gap is closed.'
-    ),
-)
+# NOTE: was previously `@pytest.mark.xfail(strict=True, ...)`
+# for the orphan-SIGINT hang documented in
+# `ai/conc-anal/subint_forkserver_orphan_sigint_hang_issue.md`
+# — now passes after the fork-child FD-hygiene fix in
+# `tractor.spawn._subint_forkserver._close_inherited_fds()`:
+# closing all inherited FDs (including the parent's IPC
+# listener + trio-epoll + wakeup-pipe FDs) lets the child's
+# trio event loop respond cleanly to external SIGINT.
+# Leaving the test in place as a regression guard.
 @pytest.mark.timeout(
     30,
     method='thread',

tractor/spawn/_subint_forkserver.py

@@ -526,6 +526,18 @@ class _ForkedProc:
         self.stdin = None
         self.stdout = None
         self.stderr = None
+        # pidfd (Linux 5.3+, Python 3.9+) — a file descriptor
+        # referencing this child process which becomes readable
+        # once the child exits. Enables a fully trio-cancellable
+        # wait via `trio.lowlevel.wait_readable()` — same
+        # pattern `trio.Process.wait()` uses under the hood, and
+        # the same pattern `multiprocessing.Process.sentinel`
+        # uses for `tractor.spawn._spawn.proc_waiter()`. Without
+        # this, waiting via `trio.to_thread.run_sync(os.waitpid,
+        # ...)` blocks a cache thread on a sync syscall that is
+        # NOT trio-cancellable, which prevents outer cancel
+        # scopes from unwedging a stuck-child cancel cascade.
+        self._pidfd: int = os.pidfd_open(pid)
 
     def poll(self) -> int | None:
         '''
@@ -555,22 +567,40 @@ class _ForkedProc:
 
     async def wait(self) -> int:
         '''
-        Async blocking wait for the child's exit, off-loaded
-        to a trio cache thread so we don't block the event
-        loop on `waitpid()`. Safe to call multiple times;
-        subsequent calls return the cached rc without
-        re-issuing the syscall.
+        Async, fully-trio-cancellable wait for the child's
+        exit. Uses `trio.lowlevel.wait_readable()` on the
+        `pidfd` sentinel — same pattern as `trio.Process.wait`
+        and `tractor.spawn._spawn.proc_waiter` (mp backend).
+
+        Safe to call multiple times; subsequent calls return
+        the cached rc without re-issuing the syscall.
 
         '''
         if self._returncode is not None:
             return self._returncode
-        _, status = await trio.to_thread.run_sync(
-            os.waitpid,
-            self.pid,
-            0,
-            abandon_on_cancel=False,
-        )
+        # Park until the pidfd becomes readable — the OS
+        # signals this exactly once on child exit. Cancellable
+        # via any outer trio cancel scope (this was the key
+        # fix vs. the prior `to_thread.run_sync(os.waitpid,
+        # abandon_on_cancel=False)` which blocked a thread on
+        # a sync syscall and swallowed cancels).
+        await trio.lowlevel.wait_readable(self._pidfd)
+        # pidfd signaled → reap non-blocking to collect the
+        # exit status. `WNOHANG` here is correct: by the time
+        # the pidfd is readable, `waitpid()` won't block.
+        try:
+            _, status = os.waitpid(self.pid, os.WNOHANG)
+        except ChildProcessError:
+            # already reaped by something else
+            status = 0
         self._returncode = self._parse_status(status)
+        # pidfd is one-shot; close it so we don't leak fds
+        # across many spawns.
+        try:
+            os.close(self._pidfd)
+        except OSError:
+            pass
+        self._pidfd = -1
         return self._returncode
 
     def kill(self) -> None:
@@ -584,6 +614,16 @@ class _ForkedProc:
         except ProcessLookupError:
             pass
 
+    def __del__(self) -> None:
+        # belt-and-braces: close the pidfd if `wait()` wasn't
+        # called (e.g. unexpected teardown path).
+        fd: int = getattr(self, '_pidfd', -1)
+        if fd >= 0:
+            try:
+                os.close(fd)
+            except OSError:
+                pass
+
     def _parse_status(self, status: int) -> int:
         if os.WIFEXITED(status):
             return os.WEXITSTATUS(status)